Charla Hathaway
Charla is a sex and intimacy coach and founder of BodyJoy Intimacy School. She works with couples and singles, teaches classes in sexual wellness and wisdom and leads erotic-spiritual events in her community. Her latest book is Eight Erotic Nights: Passionate Encounters that Inspire Great Sex for a Lifetime. She and her partner lead ‘Being Me and Loving You ‘ retreats for couples. She is also a certified Sexological Bodyworker from the Institute for the Advanced Studies of Human Sexuality.
Workshop: How to Give a Man an Erotic/Healing Massage
Tuesday, January 26 - 10:45 to 12:00 pm
Charla, an intimacy coach, demonstrates on a live model how to give a man a sacred healing massage. She covers how to prepare a man for “receiving” deep bodywork, Ocean breathing, full body strokes, genital massage techniques, and external and internal prostate massage. You’ll learn how to elevate and prolong his pleasure and arousal, turning your man into a spirited and spiritual lover for a prolonged heart connection during lovemaking.
Giving this massage, women or men awaken their inner male and ability to lead, penetrate, and orchestrate. In receiving, men find their inner woman and learn to follow, take in and let go. Both sexes invite healing and expansion by trading roles of active/passive, doer/do-ee, power and surrender.
Goal: To inspire deeper levels of intimacy, appreciation, honesty, and adventure in your erotic spiritual journey while honing your skill at bringing your partner to extended ecstatic trance states.
Learning Objectives:
- Coach and be coached with a partner in breathing the Ocean Breath with sighs, and report how such sexual breathing affects your bodily sensations,
- Practice giving and receiving TranceTouch on a partner and learn the rules of effective touch: a) touching for your own pleasure; b) focus on sensations; c) touching for the moment without agenda, and
- Learning one or more reasons why prostate massage is important to a man’s health and pleasure and ways to do it safely.
